Monday, October 21, 2013

Hello gentlemen,
Please advise a wife who has just been told her husband is having surgery two days before surgery.  I am hurt, to say the least.  I am seeing a therapist, I didn't know how serious his situation was.  I am 48 considered to be in the prime of life, my husband as well.  I don't know what to expect.  He is three weeks post op.  I see his penis through his pants and I am terrified, angry and disguised all at the same time.  I see him looking down at himself and I'm appalled.  Please if anyone has advice or something to share for a wife help me to anticipate what awaits us.  I am finding out there is no support for us women.